First date with your group of friends around is a taboo. Friends are suppose to give you more confident and make you more comfortable, but you might end up talking to you friends all the time as you feel shy or nervous when you start talking to her. These are bad signs and rude for establishing a supposed relationship. You must focus on your date.
| First few dates should involve communication, entertainment, and loads of fun. If you're nervous, chances are your date is nervous as well. Admitting that you're nervous will enable you and your date to relax and if any stupid incident happen, most likely it will be forgive and forget. Before you know it, you might be chatting about all the things that you both enjoy. Talking to her and letting her know more about you is important, but don't just you talking the whole night away, you must also encourage her to talk about herself so to know as much information and detail of her as possible, this will help you in planning for the second or third date better. |
Finding good place to talk is also important. You may try going to a well-lit park, have a causal chat with drink in hands and stars above your head, cool breeze blowing lightly onto her. Nice environment always calm people down. But make sure you have topic to keep the conversation going for a while. You may also opt for do some window-shopping with her and pick up conversation topic as you watch your surrounding. This will also help in understanding her better.
Listen carefully for some hints of second date ideas so that you won't be stressed out planning it. Remember to have fun, to be honest and to show your humorous side. You may also suggest a date for the next outing, just to let her know you enjoy the wonderful evening you spent with her and also let her know that you want to see her again.